That's about the way it is with most life situations that bring us a challenge. If it doesn't work out, there is another avenue, or, there is another direction all together. Maybe the point will be to not keep hitting my head against the wall but to accept that there is a wall there. Now that might be a thought to ponder.
If you see this, it means the process worked. If you don't see this you can count on the fact that I will be looking for other ways to get 'er done.